Lines Drawn in the Sand, an open letter to Cakes Decor

My heart is heavy right now and this is a very hard article to write.  An editorial appeared on Cakes Decor recently and has divided my little cake community in ways I never thought possible.  You can read that editorial here.  I am going to address each of the points made in the editorial giving my opinion on them.  And it will be just that:  my opinion.  I also intend to discuss the MANNER of the editorial.

Before I start, I guess I better give my background…just in case you haven’t read the “About Ruth” page or don’t know who I am.  After all, I was told today that I am just a writer and an attorney, not a “real caker.”

I started cake decorating around 1994.  I worked for Quail Plaza IGA, first as a cake decorator, then as the bakery manager.  In 1999, I was named top Bakery Manager in the world for all the IGA’s.  I then opened my bakery.  I started with just me in 400 square feet and it grew to 16 employees in 4000 square feet.  We made hundreds of cakes a week.  I closed my bakery at the end of 2011, to travel and teach advanced cake decorating.  I have made real cakes.  I have baked them.  I have made styrofoam cakes.  I have baked from home, worked for others and run my own commercial shop.  I truly have been in most every bakery/caking situation you can name.  I am a Certified Master Sugar Artist, one of very few in the world today.  I have won a ridiculous number of medals at cake shows.  I have been published in numerous magazines.  I’ve done the tv cake competitions and won.  I’m incredibly far from perfect, but feel like I have sufficient background to talk to you about this editorial.  Oh!  And before someone brings it up, yes, I practiced law for years.  I AM A CAKE DECORATOR.


To begin, I want to talk about the tenor of the editorial.  This is America.  We have the right to free speech and to express our opinions.  I love that about America.  In law school, we were taught that our rights extended to the end of our fingertips, but not so far as to touch someone else.  And that is paramount.  Yes, we can say whatever we want…SO LONG AS WE DO NO HARM.  For instance, if I walk into a crowded theatre and yell “fire!”, inciting a panic and someone is harmed running out of the theatre, I would be liable for those injuries sustained.  It only makes sense.

In today’s world, cyber bullying has become all too real.  I wrote about it previously in my blog called Unsweetened.  The editor chose to use derogatory labels such as “faker caker” to put down people who do not offer cakes for retail sale.  Apparently, you are only a “REAL” caker if you sell your cakes.  Does this mean that your grandmother is not a real caker because she decorates just for family?  Does this mean that a retired bakery owner is no longer a real caker?  If your state or city prevents you from selling, did you just become a fake decorator?  And how many cakes does it take to be real?  If you get one order a year, are you real?

This happens from time to time in the athletic community.  People will say that you aren’t a real runner if you can’t run a certain time per mile.  Or you aren’t a real triathlete if you haven’t done a full ironman.  In the end, it is just an effort to put someone else down and to raise yourself up.  Here’s the problem with that:  when you try to make someone seem like less, you never ever make yourself look like more.  This is why I belong to several Facebook athletic groups that are inclusive of those #pathetic triathletes or #backofthepack runners.  If you run, you are a runner.  If you decorate cakes, real or styro, you are a cake decorator.  If you decorate cakes for the sheer joy and delight of it and make no money, you are a cake decorator.  If you teach cake decorating skills in person or online, you are a cake decorator.  Please, do not let this editorial make you feel unworthy.  You decorate.  Let’s celebrate that!!

Now to address the fallacies in the article.

Decorating a styrofoam cake is easier.

Sometimes, it IS easier.  Sometimes it is way harder.  The thing is, styrofoam is light and moves around on you.  The edges can be very sharp and tear your fondant.  Generally, I think it takes about the same amount of time to decorate the outside of a real cake vs. a styrofoam cake.  The decorating part is unchanged.  As we always told our customers at my shop who looked at our styrofoam displays…they were styro inside so that they could stay on display without drawing bugs, but every item on the outside was exactly as if we were decorating their cake.  It is true that the styrofoam cakes won’t bulge and are generally pretty stable when stacked.  If you work with the right cake and stacking techniques, the same is true for real cakes.  I have friends that have stacked real cakes 6 and 7 tiers high and driven with them on back country roads in Texas and Louisiana without any problems.

Classes should be taught in real cake.

Sure, when possible.  But it is not always possible.  Let me give some examples.  At many mini class events, they are held at facilities that have in-house food vendors.  Teachers are not allowed to bring in their own cake.  You must purchase cake from the vendor.  Those are often not the type of cakes you would use to carve and create structured cakes.  For that reason, a teacher may choose to use styrofoam.  Sometimes, students fly or drive to take a class.  Taking home a real cake on a plane, or shipping it home, is not always realistic or desired.  The better question is, did the teacher demo or provide info on how to do the project in real cake?  I have first hand knowledge of many teachers who teach structures and know that they do.

A few teachers, including the one who said I wasn’t a real caker,  posted that they only teach with real cake.  That is great!  I’m so glad it is something that you can do where you teach!  My Wilton classes always used real cake.  I am glad I learned with it…at the beginning.  Would I need to have it in real cake now to understand the process?  Probably not, but I’ve been caking for a long time.  If you are newer and NEED to see it done in real cake, then by all means look for those classes!  Read your class descriptions carefully and choose the ones that are right for you.

Designs done in styrofoam are not realistic to be done in real cake.

Didn’t we learn anything when a certain decorator belittled another on his gravity defying cube cake??  She said it was a nice piece of styrofoam, but couldn’t be done in cake…so he cut into his cake and proved her wrong.  I remember when the Topsy Turvy cakes were all the rage.  Colette Peters and Polly Schoonmaker pioneered these and everyone said it couldn’t be done in real cake.  But it could.  And across the country, it was!

I always think of cakes for competitions and photo shoots as your couture runway shows.  This isn’t the ready-to-wear commercial line of cakes…these are the dreams, the fantasies, the desire to explore the ultimate in possibilities.  While it is highly rare that one of those cakes is practical to be recreated for a customer, it is also true that many of our trends arise from them.  There is a difference between commercial cakes and competition cakes…I covered that before in this blog.  I know that sometimes it is hard to explain the difference to a customer, but that is part of your job:  educating your clients.  I had competition cakes in my display window and was always able to design a commercial approach to it for my customers.  That is your creative challenge.  If it simply isn’t possible or feasible for any reason, just be upfront with them.  Your customers deserve your honesty.

The fake cakes aren’t realistic to be done for customers.

You might think this is the same as above, but not really.  The editor said that the class designs were so “wonky” that they weren’t realistic for a customer’s budget.  The editorial implied that people should not take classes for cakes that they can’t turn around and resell.  I addressed the factors that help me decide whether to take a class here.  Many people do not take a class solely to recreate that project for retail sale.  Sometimes, they take class to meet the instructor.  Sometimes, they want to learn the techniques from that class to use on a different project.  Who really cares if a class is realistic for retail sale??  What if it is my child’s dream cake?  Can’t I take that class?  The project, in the end, is just the embodiment of the techniques taught in that class.  Let each student decide if it is right for them.

Cake shows should require all cake designs to be real cake.

The editor probably doesn’t know this, but one show tried that.  Cakes had to be real and you could only spend a limited amount of time working on them.  Awesome.  Then the cakes arrived.  And the work was very limited and commercial looking.  The show organizers were surprised, I think.  Those viewing the cakes were disappointed.  They didn’t want to see the cakes they could get at their local shops and grocery stores; they wanted to see the magical side of our art.

There are shows overseas that require the cake to be real.  There are chef organizations that require real cake.  There are divisions at cake shows for real cake.  If that is what you want to make, then please…enter those!  There are rarely enough sculpted cakes at shows.  If you do enter that division, grab my tips here.  I’ve looked at class projects and thought “I would never make that in a million years!”, but others looked at the same class and saw a project they couldn’t resist.  Who am I to say that they shouldn’t take it?  Often, they don’t recreate THAT project…they take the skills and knowledge gained in class to create something else.  And isn’t that what education is all about??!!

Fake cakes should be labeled as such.

So, this has been the biggie in all the Facebook groups.  Don’t act like it is a real cake if it is a fake one.  I honestly don’t recall anyone trying to mislead the public on this.  I’m not sure I even care.  I can look at a design and determine whether I personally am able to do it in cake or not.  I can’t look at it and determine whether or not YOU can do it.  I’ve seen cakes that seemed almost “too perfect” to be real, but then a slice was cut out of it and my jaw would drop.  There are people with skills far beyond mine.  I’m not threatened by that.  There are people with skills below mine.  I’m not better than them because of that.

I’ve seen work by many highly talented sugar artists and I cannot tell whether it is one of their real cakes or their fake cakes.  Why should they HAVE to tell people one is styrofoam?  What does it matter?  So many cake decorators said they felt better by the editorial because it made them feel ok about their work.  People, I want you to feel better about your work regardless!  You are creating an edible artform and doing it to the best of your ability today!  Don’t stress about whether someone else’s cake edges are sharper or their buttercream is smoother.  If you personally aren’t happy with how something looks, that’s different.  Take a class or practice on a dummy to improve.  No other artist’s work makes yours less.  Your customers, friends and family all love YOU.  They love your cakes.  Don’t be distracted by things outside your business or hobby that have no means to hurt you.

Don’t do fake cakes if you can’t do a real one.

This is where I felt like the editorial really missed the mark.  Are there actually a bunch of cake decorators running around making magnificent fake cakes who don’t know how to make a real cake?  I cannot think of a single one.  Not ONE.  Is there a community of cake artists out there teaching classes but they don’t know how to bake a cake?  Seriously??  No.  I can think of several decorators who work on styrofoam for projects, but also have numerous baking tutorials.  I would trust any of them to make me a cake.

Why was I hurt by this article?

This is a tough industry.  The hours are long and the pay really isn’t great.  As artists, we already second guess ourselves and our work every single day.  We know that when we post our work online, it is being judged by every set of eyes that sees it.  We need to find ways to build a strong, supportive community.  Dividing people into groups, especially with a derogatory term like “FAKER CAKER” is just a means to make someone feel less about themselves.  Why, oh why, would you want to try to hurt someone?  I know when the decorator told me today that I wasn’t a real caker, I was shocked and hurt.  I’m sad for her.  I left her group, so she won’t know that I have a really good background of information and could have been a helpful adviser in that group.

Today, I would like to celebrate all of you who make cakes.  Thank you for keeping this beautiful art form alive.  Thank you for sharing your talents with the world.  Just thank you.  


45 thoughts on “Lines Drawn in the Sand, an open letter to Cakes Decor

  1. Perfection. Every word! Thank you for writing this. I read both articles, and came a little undone with uh-ohs!! It was disheartening to so many people I truly admire and have the deepest respect for.

  2. Thank you Ruth for your words and wisdom. Your insight and objectivity are needed in this industry. I appreciate you so much!!!

  3. I have just one word for that “editorial”…. Unbelievable! You are so right Ruth! Keep up the good work and thank you for being a great Cake Decorator!! Your work is beautiful and inspiring!

  4. Thank you for this article. I was very hurt and shocked by the article even though it wasn’t personally directed at me. I am a Cake Decorator and I use all mediums. Your insight is appreciated.

  5. I am left scratching my head with that blog post. She has a right to her feelings, but man, that was like a high school kid saying “I’m better than you because I put fondant on real cake and you don’t! Neener!”. I’m picturing the group of snobby kids in school who thought they were soooo much better than anyone else and called other kids names. I couldn’t even read the rest of it. I don’t understand why someone would be so closed minded to think that it’s ‘their way’ or the highway with cake decorating.

    Also, regarding classes – I took a peacock cake class from Rich Reichert. I NEVER will make that elaborate cake for anyone in my area, EVER. But I learned a lot of valuable techniques in that class. The class isn’t about the end product, it’s about the technique, right? And you know what? I don’t care whether people make ‘real’ cakes or not, if they know a technique that I want to learn, even if it’s only been used on foam, I will take their class no matter WHAT their medium is.. Who the heck cares??

    Why must anyone feel like they have to tear others down? Life is too short. If people put as much time worrying about themselves as they do others, this world would be an AMAZING place. Carry on and love each other!!!! We ALL have something to give. ❤

  6. Thank You Ruth for saying what should have been said so many times before. I am getting so sick and tied of all the whining out there in the cake industry….. Everyone is perfectly allowed to voice their opinion about anything they want to. However, just remember in giving your opinion there is no need to disrespect others, that do the same thing that you do, voice your opinion and be done with it. All these instructors that give classes and slam others to their students should be ashamed of themselves. How about the very talented instructor that was sponsored by Satin Ice and constantly ripped apart Satin Ice by calling them Satan Ice and how disgusted you are with their product. You sure knew where to get the free goods and then charge your student for them, didn’t you. Or, the class I took that I paid $600 for and one of the assistants totally slammed Wilton the entire 3 days. He made all kinds of rude comments about Wilton including about the “W” standing from “Wrong”. Or the new up and coming cake artists that slam the long time artists as being washed up and that they shouldn’t even be teaching classes anymore. Listen you little “honeys”, you probably would not be in the place you are today if it wasn’t for Wilton and the long time artists that started the cake movement.

    People there is room for everyone! Grow the hell up! Ruth thank you soooooooo much for starting this conversation. You have definitely spoken your mind and have spoken for many others also, including myself. Like I said, There is room for everyone out there. I don’t even make cakes and I love, love, love going to all the classes. I don’t find fault for anyone giving their opinion, but opinions can be spoken with a positive twist and stop slamming others just because you want to make a point. An opinion is just that – an opinion, doesn’t mean if you are right or wrong – it’s opinion. Please respect other’s opinions as you would like yours respected and validated. It’s time everyone put on their big girl panties and big boy undies and grew up and learned what the word respect means.

    Thank You again Ruth for being you. It is a “You” that I am so happy to say I know, Love and Respect

  7. Well said! Giving things labels is beyond an opinion. You are attaching a label to a negative feeling and stereotype. That is how a stereotype is mad or by example. The sad part is even those who make real cake will be cut by people assuming anything of quality must also be a fake. Sad all around. I appreciate you taking the time to cut it all down and decisively attack each topic to show it wasn’t just generalized.

  8. Wonderfully said, Ruth. I admire you and your work. People can get so hateful sometimes. There is room in this world for all of us and we need to be respectful of each other. Words can injure and cut so deeply. People need to stop and think about what they are saying before putting their foot in their mouth.

  9. My name is Steve Volk AAC / cepc/ cce/ / RBA master baker, / 1976 World Culinary Olympics Gold Medal 1986 Canada Silver & Bronze Medals / The Worlds Largest Revolving Fruit Cake 32 feet / 20 Tons I decorated real cakes for many world v.v.i.p.s & dummies for store bridle shops.& much more I am a culinary teacher for grades 9 – 16 mentor for prison, & government, unemployed, the poor with no skills, I. love teaching those who can not afford classes,. Homeless & on Wellfair SETA My book # 6 ( # 626176 ) Will be going to AuthorHouse very soon, There is to many items to write about. by August check up on the lasted book, by A. M. Steve Volk Book # 626176 call AuthorHouse, 1-888-519-5121 .For more information.

  10. thank you ! I make decorated cakes and cookies for my family and church. I do not sell cakes. I consider myself a decorator. I learned the wilton method and poured over the youtube videos to learn new techniques. I was crushed when I saw that what she wrote. Thank you for speaking up and making me feel better about my cake decorating talent.

  11. The writer of that mean editorial should listen to Tim McGraw’s song “Humble and Kind”. Hopefully she will think better when she realizes she should not make judgements.

  12. Why is this even an issue? Unbelievable. I have seen demonstrations for other craft using big fat FAKE items, so what? Is it hurting anyone? No. I anyone who attends the classes offended? NO. WHy? Because it is about learning the skills involved. As for decorating foam blanks to showcase talent and new skills…..I have marvelled at the skill involved for many techniques and executions and I when someone has suggested that a particular cake wasn’t real in a competition they have cut the cake and ta dah! Cake! It’s as if people cannot believe that something that elaborate or marvellous could be done in cake and it has made them feel inadequate. I think the whole process of design and cake decorating is incredible, and for those who aren’t bakers and more decorators good on you! You people are always pushing the boundaries of design and that helps the rest of us up the ante in our work too.

  13. I removed my self from thier mailing list. Ruth, never stop doing what you do. I can’t believe such narrow mindedness in today’s worl.

  14. Thank you !! For your words, your work, your time! Thank you !! At the end of the day you’re covered in sugar!

  15. Once again, you are the best!
    My question in all of this is, “who cares?” There have been times I have considered doing highly decorated cakes for competition only. So what? I don’t think that makes me, or anyone else, fake. Partly, it means we know our strengths…..and weaknesses. There are things I am great at on a cake dummy–because I can do them over and over. On a cake for a client? Not yet. I hardly think that means that I, or anyone else, am fake.
    I have to cringe when I think about all competition cakes being real cake. First, how many people would be excluded because of travel? Second, can you say bugs?? “Look, mommy! The cake is alive!”
    We are not the velveteen rabbit. Time and getting scuffed do not make us “real.” What makes us real is our commitment to the art–in whatever form we choose to pursue it.

  16. Thanks for writing this article. It was very well written and touched on pretty much everything I felt after reading the original “faker caker” article. I don’t fully understand what the editor’s intentions were in writing that article but I’m glad you took the time to set some things straight. You pretty much said everything I was thinking. Thanks so much!

  17. I would rather go around and teach for a living than the stress of getting wedding cakes out! I don’t like the baking, clean-up, the mundane pieces of doing cakes. You bet your sweet bippy that if I could trade that in for sharing my skills in a classroom and stop ‘caking’, I’d do it in a flying heartbeat!!!! Sadly, I don’t have enough skills. Hats off to those who are SO talented they don’t have to make cakes (ever or anymore!) to express their artwork!!!

    For those who love the stress, baking, mess, clean-up, hats off to you! I ONLY like the artwork piece of decorating. *sigh*

    • I agree with you. I could go my whole life without washing another spatula. I, too, wish I had the talent to teach and not bake. I also wish I had the incredible creativity of so many out there. Like you, another day, another spatula.

  18. Bravo well said. The editorial we are all so disturbed about has shaken the cake community…I am not sure if it was written to actually DO that or maybe the person had a very bad day. All I know is I was highly offended and upset. I can bake cakes and I use dummies…as do most others. I was also hurt by the following comments that stated they were REAL cakers….really? if I wanted to practice a technique am I really supposed to bake a three tiered cake just to work on something in my own sweet time cos otherwise I am not a REAL caker? I have never liked labels, I have never liked boxing people in and I have never liked bullying.

  19. I just want to add, that I’ve, in fact, worked with amazing cake decorators that don’t know how to bake a cake, they don’t know anything related to even kitchen stuff, but are natural skilled to handle fondant, fortunately, they’re also conscious about their limitations and would never try to sell a cake by themselves, instead they’d team with a baker and summarize their talent

  20. Ruth you are spot on once again. Even though I never got the chance to come into your bakery, one of your former employees was an instructor of mine in pastry school, and he was brilliant just like you. I am so glad there are still good folk like you and the person that article was written about who do teach & encourage us to do more, be better & never stop reaching for our dreams. And just a fun little fact I took a class from a country’s royal baker, funny most of the cakes he does have styro in the cake somewhere to create those monstrously beautiful designs, lol.

  21. thank you for speaking for all of us, even though it’s by your opinion.. pretty sure more than one (not just me) think the same as you, even if it’s the beginning of our baking/decorating career!

  22. Perfectly said.
    All over the days I didn’t understand the intention of the gazette.
    The only result is splitting, unrest and displeasure…
    It’s time for a post like this. 🌹

  23. What she said!! I sell real cake and faux cake and have been published many times, done tv (never won, probably never will) and have literally thousands of satisfied customers. Still doing it today. Own a cake shop still today and still doing faux and real cakes. Love you Ruthie and appreciate your words. Xoxo, Jq

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